HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

You may know him as *City* or *SlickRude*... but I know him as *Akeem* when I'm "serious", *Keem* when I'm sincere, and *Ak da Philosafa* when I need him the most. This is a 23rd birthday blog dedicated to my bestest friend in the whole wide universe, *Akeem*.

I know I call him the Big Little Brother I Never Wanted but in no way is that literal! In fact, I envy those who do call him brother. He's there when I'm happy or sad or angry or just need a hug to keep my spirits up. I swear i don't know what I did to deserve such a caring, loyal, and honest friend but I'm glad I got him! I wouldn't trade him for the world. Yes, yes, I know some may read this and think it all fluff but that's okay because at the end of the day, as *Akeem* says, "we know what it really is". I believe he's right, after some thought I believe that haters hate because they lack such a solid friendship.

How many people can say that they have a best friend who would wake up in the middle of the night, even though they had to wake up in a few hours for work, to walk them half way across the city to pick up the wallet they left at a restaurant?
I can.

How many people can say that they have a best friend who put their studies on hold to stay with them for several hours on end in the ER?
I can.

How many people can say that they have a best friend who knows what it means to struggle and face adversity until the point of a nervous breakdown, and then be there to help pick up the pieces?
I can.

How many people can say that they have a best friend who goes to such extremes as to sacrifice who they really are just to make you happy?
I can.

With that said, I thank my lucky stars for my best friend. Even though I am not perfect, I try my hardest to improve...even though I fuck up often, my apologies are heartfelt. So, this is my toast to you, dear best friend. I wish that your birthday be one of many happy memories and wonderful laughs. Happy Birthday *Akeem*.


Its *Aktober*, are you READY?

In A Hurry...!

Just before I was about to walk out of my apartment for an errand filled day, I caught this video on MTV3res. Its the latest from the exotic bombshell, Shakira. While I am partial to early Spanish rock/pop Shakira, "She Wolf" certainly caught my attention. The video is amazing! She kicks Beyoncé's butt with her sensuality and gives Ciara a run for her money with all her flexibility. So kick back, relax, and check out the video below...Aooow!

Must See!!!!

This looks like it will be amazing to watch! I'm just not sure how I feel about the whole 3-D movement. I find it somewhat bothersome to have to wear plastic shades while your trying to enjoy a film. Then again, Alice in Wonderland is intended to be a story for children. Either way, Tim Berton is a genius director and one of my favorites! Enjoy the trailer before time runs out, its already been restricted on many sites due to copyright. I'll be sure to update with a movie review in March 2010 :)

The Game

For the short run it had, CW's The Game was really a nice show to watch for some eye candy. Sure the show was entertaining but I've got to give my personal props to Marion H. "Pooch" Hall, Jr. and Mehcad Brooks. I'm not going to lie, half the time I was wishing that I was just like Melanie "Med School" Barnett (Tia Mowry). I'd love to gain acceptance to medical school then tote a hottie around my arm!

Better late than never...

Hanging out with my mom today I had a change of heart...she presented me with the Jordan GS True Flights and I fell in love. In all my 22 years and 10 months on this earth I've never owned a pair of Jordan's. Its safe to say I feel like I'm 5 years old again and Christmas has come early. To commemorate this Rite of Passage into Urban Style, specifically NYC Urban Style, I now present my very own True Flight pix:

The Early Bird...

...gets the worm! My pick from Gucci's 2009 Fall/Winter Collection is the Icon Bit pump. Like all of the other picks showcased in the "Shoe Lovely" category, these sassy peep toes are pretty pricey at $650. Eventually you will be able to spot me strutting down the street rockin' a pair of fierce shoes like these, but in the meantime, I'll resort to that good ol' wishfull thinking!

Dexter

It has been awhile since we've had a new induction into the Sexy Men collection, but have no fear! It is not due to any shortage of sexy men but merely to my lack of motivation & dedication to share. Thus, without further ado, I present to you, my dear readers, the sexy man of Dexter.

Michael C. Hall plays the role of a hottie after my own heart! A forensic scientist who moonlights as a serial killer, I mean seriously, isn't that just brilliant? Sure it may seem a tad bit unethical but after 3 seasons its all but impossible not to find the sense in Dexter's brand of justice. Season 4 is set to begin September 27th and I'm just so anxious to see what obsticles Dexter will face next! There are so many unanswered questions!

The only thing helping me through the anticipation is the fact that season 4 begins just after my birthday. You all know where I'm going with this don't you? I know you do! See, there is a load of Dexter merch here at the SHOWTime site and..... you've guessed it! The Dexter 7" action figure, "Body Parts" earrings, "5 finger discount" mug, "Physics in Bloom" pillow, and Dexter books are at the top of my wishlist.

I hope the Birthday Fairy doesn't let me down...